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The Shiloh Project
SHILOH TIPS FOR FINDING & ADOPTING YOUR FAMILY DOG!

   1. Wait until your children are old enough. Many children are unaware that animals can experience pain and may accidentally harm companion animals. Young children, under the age of 6, may be more likely to fall on or trip over a dog or puppy. In addition, due to their age and inexperience around animals, they may not be able to resist pulling an animal’s ears or tail or attempting to ride a dog like a horse. As hard as it may be for both you and your kids, waiting until your children are old enough is a key factor in the success of adopting a family companion animal.

   2. Avoid getting a puppy. Puppies are adorable but they are also lots of work! Recognize that no matter what your kids tell you, YOU will be the one getting up in the early morning hours to check on that adorable puppy; YOU will be the one writing out the checks to replace chewed shoes and household furnishings and YOU will be the one cleaning up various puppy accidents! The Shiloh Project believes that adult dogs make wonderful family companions. For the most part, they are less likely to chew, more likely to already be housetrained, and can be just as eager to learn and easy to train as any puppy! In addition, many times it is easier to determine their temperament and you already know how big they are going to get.

   3. Adopt a mixed breed. As a general rule, mixed breed dogs have better and more stable temperaments than most purebreds and are healthier too. Statistics show that 1 in 4 purebred dogs in America are afflicted with a serious genetic problem. For example, Golden Retrievers, German Shepherds and Labradors are often born with crippling hip dysplasia, and Dalmatians are often born deaf. Cocker Spaniels have been so overbred that many not only suffer from chronic ear infections, hernias and kidney problems, but their temperament has been affected as well and many of these once gentle family dogs now have a tendency to bite.

   4. Take your time and during the initial visit, leave the kids at home! Once you begin to look, take your time and look at a number of dogs. We suggest that you first have the adults in the family select two or three dogs that would fit your family criteria, and then bring in the kids to help make the final decision. That way, the adults don’t have to say "no" to the kids regarding an inappropriate dog choice, yet everyone gets to be part of the adoption selection process.

   5. Ask three important questions: Shelters and animal rescue organizations want to work with you to find the right fit, both for you and for the dog. Make sure to ask the following about each dog you look at:
   a) To your knowledge, has the dog ever bitten or shown aggression to a person or animal? Although any information about a known dog bite must be shared with prospective owners, make sure you inquire about general aggression also. Does the dog have a history of growling, baring his/her teeth or being overly possessive around food or toys? Even though you may only be adopting one dog, you want to make sure that when you’re walking your dog, he/she is not aggressive toward other animals. Even if you are sure your dog will never encounter a cat, if the dog is aggressive toward cats, that’s information you need to know.
   b) Has the dog been boarded, and if so, for how long? This question applies to rescue organizations where, although most groups try to use foster homes as much as they can, sometimes dogs are kenneled for short periods of time while awaiting a foster or adoptive home. For some dogs, being boarded can be very stressful and can affect their socialization. If you are looking at a dog that is being boarded, find out how long he/she has been kenneled and how much exercise and socialization (both with people and other dogs) that he/she is getting. While individual dog and kennel situations may vary, in general, dogs should not be boarded for more than a few weeks at the most.
   c. Has the dog had any training? If so, what methods were used? All training is NOT created equal, especially when it comes to a dog that is going to be around children. Many trainers say that they use "positive reinforcement methods" but sometimes that means nothing more than patting the dog on the head after choking him/her with a choke chain. If a trainer was used with the dog, make every attempt to go and watch that trainer in action, during a class or working with an individual dog. Most trainers will welcome the chance to let you observe their classes and you will learn much about the methods used with the dog you are looking at. The Shiloh Project believes that all dogs should be trained using positive reinforcement methods only and that other methods (choke chains, prong collars, electronic stimulis, physical force, etc.) can not only be bad for the dog, but dangerous for a dog going to a household with children, where children can be seen as competitors.

   6. Finally… If and when you do decide to adopt a dog as part of your family, remember to teach your children to never disturb a dog while he/she is sleeping, eating, or chewing on a toy! The dog should also have a place that he/she can retreat to that is off limits to children and when the dog is in that space, he/she should not be disturbed. With a little planning, patience, and commitment, your family can find a wonderful lifelong canine companion!
For more information contact:

The Shiloh Project 12210 Fairfax Towne Center #902
Fairfax, VA 22033  (703) 591-3600  shilohproj@aol.com